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Boudoir Butter
Boudoir Butter

Boudoir Butter

Your Price: $49.97
Part Number:1002
  • Best Vaginal Lubrication:Organic moisturizer / lubrication for soothing vaginal dryness and pain
  • Stop the Pain:Soothing, gentle, organic solution to your dryness

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Boudoir Butter, created to enhance your own natural lubrication (or lack, thereof)

Boudoir Butter is an organic moisturizer to ease and soothe the pain of post-menopausal and vaginal health issues.

A truly organic moisturizer to allow you to live your life without pain.

Our Gift to You - use code NoMorePain10 for a 10% off your first order
(or if you sign up for recurring orders you will continue to receive the 10% discount)

The World Health Organization estimates that 30 MILLION WOMEN WILL EXPERIENCE DISCOMFORT OR EXTREME VAGINAL PAIN during their lifetime.

Do you know that only 3% of women mention their vaginal issues to anyone (including their physicians).
It is our mission to help women feel comfortable with discussing their vaginal health and to help ease the pain that they may be living with.


  • Are you living with Dyspareunia? (painful sexual intercourse)
  • Is the pain resulting in painful penetration, sexual pain or vaginal discomfort?
  • Have you lost interest in sex altogether because just the thought of it is painful?
  • You are NOT alone – 43% of women are experiencing sexual pain and nobody is talking about it.


Boudoir Butter is a unique moisturizer with a butter-like consistency which allows a woman to reclaim her body and feel incredible.

Boudoir Butter is:


  • Hormone Free
  • Toxin Free
  • GMO Free
  • Chemical Free
  • Synthetic Free
  • Sugar Free
  • Perfume Free
  • Petroleum Free
  • Made from food grade edible ingredients


Ingredients: Cocoa Butter, Shea Butter, Coconut Oil, Jojoba Oil and Grapeseed Oil.

As an herbalist and wellness coach I'm always on the lookout for organic products for my clients. I want my clients to feel amazing and happy. Women who are living with vaginal pain and dryness aren't feeling amazing and happy, in fact for many of them they feel as if part of their body has totally changed and not for the better. For some, just walking down the street or sitting on a chair creates pain. Some women complain that they are so dry that even urinating stings and is painful. If you are one of these women Boudoir Butter may be able to help you. What I'm hearing these days from women using Boudoir Butter is that they are able to get through the day without thinking at all about what in the past seemed to be on their minds consistently.

(Please check with your doctor if you are taking any medications or are allergic to any of these ingredients.)


Q: I see that you also sell Sex Butter on your site, what is the difference between the two products?

A: Sex Butterhas peppermint and other essential oils in it. For some women with extreme dryness the peppermint oil seems to be uncomfortable. For most people, the peppermint oil is helpful for stimulation. If you have used Sex Butter in the past, the product feels very similar .

Q: How do you use Boudoir Butter?

A: Begin with a dime sized amount, rub it between your fingers so it begins to melt. Apply to genitals as desired. Apply more if needed. (we have found that many don't even need to use a dime size, apply more if necessary)

Q: How long will a jar last?

A: It really will depend on why or how you use it. If it is used as a daily vaginal / personal moisturizer, it should last 30-60 uses. If you are using it for intimacy, it should last 20-40 uses but it will totally depend on your body.

Q: Has anybody had an allergic reaction?

A: Not that we have heard. We have had cancer survivors, women with vaginismus, vulvodynia, and other types of vaginal issues who have tested this product with no negative side effects or allergic reactions reported in their feedback surveys. If you would like to see the questions that we asked please us. Contact: [email protected]

Q: I've had cancer would Boudoir Butter be good for me to use?

A: Yes! Everything in Boudoir Butter is organic. Boudoir Butter is FREE OF: Hormones, Chemicals, Toxins, Petroleum products, Fragrance, Sugar and Synthetics.

Q: Will Boudoir Butter be shipped discreetly?

A: Yes! Absolutely. The packaging we use for this product will be completely discreet.

Boudoir Butter:


  • Is made from all organic plant based (vegan) oils
  • Is Paraben-free, Hormone-free, Chemical free, Synthetic perfume-free, Irritant free, Silicone-free
  • Is 100% Food grade – Edible
  • has 20-40 uses in each jar (you only need a little- you’ll use approx a dime size)
  • Is Clean feeling
  • Is Soothing
  • Has a Silky feeling
  • Is clean and easy to use (non sticky)
  • Can be used with a partner or alone


What I see in my practice is that so many women are struggling with sexual issues. They are ashamed and just speaking about their sexual pain is painful in itself. I feel blessed to be able to offer a product that not only lubricates but helps you to feel good about yourself and to allow you to feel sexy again.

IMPORTANT: Boudoir Butter is not intended to be used as a diagnosis of disease or other conditions, or in the cure, mitigation, treatment, or prevention of disease. All medical decisions should be made with the help of your private practitioner, if you have a medical condition or need medical care or are on medication, please consult your physician. Boudoir Butter does not prevent pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease, please use all appropriate preventive measures while engaging in sexual activity.

Boudoir Butter is Trademark Pending.

5 Stars
Love It!
I stumbled across boudoir butter following threads from different websites and was intrigued. I'm 57 years old and postmenopausal. I was lucky enough not to have terrible problems with hot flashes or mood swings, but suffered several bladder and yeast infections due to vaginal dryness. Sex wasn't nearly as enjoyable. My husband and I tried other products, but nothing feels as good as boudoir butter! I was skeptical, but am very satisfied with the product, and happy that it's all organic. I'm hoping I might even be able to discontinue the vaginal estrogen cream that I've been using at some point. I've recommended to many friends!
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Reviewed by: (Verified Buyer)  from . on 8/11/2017 3:28:00 PM
5 Stars
Boudoir Butter is the best!
Great product with all organic ingredients. I have very sensitive skin and I have had no adverse reactions using this product. I highly recommend it!
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Reviewed by: (Verified Buyer)  from . on 6/14/2016 12:10:00 PM
5 Stars
Life saving
Well I am 60 years old and have had vaginal atrophy for around 10 years. It hurt so bad. Like sand paper. My husband and I haven't had relations in years. We finally reached the empty nester stage and had no love life, how sad.... I tried hormones and creams and everything.I use this twice a day around a dime size. This has changed OUR lives. It is amazing. It isn't messy at all. We both are new people. It works I promise.... Try it.... it will change your life.
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Reviewed by: (Verified Buyer)  from . on 7/10/2017 8:02:00 AM
5 Stars
Simply the best!
As we got older, we realized we needed a little something extra for our together time. All of them had some kind of downside, whether it was a chemical that one of us was sensitive to or it it didn't last very long and we had to use more and more or whatever. Boudoir Butter is the only one that had no downside. We wholeheartedly recommend this product.
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Reviewed by: (Verified Buyer)  from . on 5/16/2016
5 Stars
Boudoir Butter is awesome
Boudoir Butter is awesome. I have suffered for years, nothing worked; countless trips to the doctor. I was resigned to being in pain and a complete disruption in my quality of life. A thousand thank yous and I tried **** everything . I was in pain almost all the time, after my period was awful, then it would get a little better as my cycle went on but was never pain-free. I even had to stop riding my bike, sometimes I could not wear pants. Stress definitely made it worse. I am now pain free even right after my period. When I began using it I was using it daily, sometimes twice a day. Now I only need it a few times a week. It's so much better that I don't even think about it. Sex was impossible and non existent for a long time, I think that's my next step
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Reviewed by: (Verified Buyer)  from . on 1/8/2016 11:10:00 PM
5 Stars
Vulvar vestibulitis
I'm not postmenopausal but I've struggled with vulvar vestibulitis for many years. I had surgery that mostly corrected the problem but I still had vaginal areas that always got very sore and raw from the friction of intercourse. This stuff acts like a protective barrier in those sensitive spots and has made intimacy so much more comfortable and basically pain free.
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Reviewed by: (Verified Buyer)  from MARYLAND. on 8/29/2021
5 Stars
This stuff is angel sent! I am age 62 and have very dry and also very sensitive skin that is highly reactive. This butter is gentle and soothing and does NOT-- like other lubricants -- create a greasy mess. Yet it stays in the area you want (for intimate relations) unlike water-based products which evaporate and must be reapplied multiple times. How I wish I had found this 10 years ago! Completely recommend.
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Reviewed by: (Verified Buyer)  from Wisconsin. on 3/29/2021
5 Stars
I’ve been using Boudoir Butter for several years, and plan to continue. It’s helped to heal dry, sensitive skin and reduce chafing and friction during sex. It’s a great product.
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Reviewed by:  from Seattle. on 10/20/2019
5 Stars
Great stuff
Love the purity and it works!! Fast shipping! Thanks, Bonnie!!
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Reviewed by:  from Peekskill. on 6/24/2019
5 Stars
Best Butter Ever
I do not have to use much to relieve the dryness and discomfort. So glad to have found this product! It’s non-greasy, and very effective
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Reviewed by:  from New Rochelle . on 9/18/2018
5 Stars
Excellent product in all respects - would be so useful to have a sales outlet in the uk.
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Reviewed by:  from uk. on 6/29/2018

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